Don't you think this idea is just an escape to not do the things simply

because you're not ready?

It sure serves as a comforting thought, but it can also become an excuse to avoid taking action. It’s a way of surrendering control often out of fear, exhaustion or self -doubt. As humans, we tend to fall back on this belief. We often think this way when we're simply tired of chasing something

Many times, people convince themselves that fate will take care of things when, in reality, it's their own hesitation holding them back.

The fear of failure, rejection, or even success can make us cling to the idea that if something is truly meant for us, it will happen effortlessly. But life rarely works that way

Assumptions and overthinking act like invisible chains, keeping people stuck in a loop of "what ifs"

and stopping them from moving forward. It becomes a hiding place, a refuge behind endless what ifs and what if not. These assumptions bind us, keeping us from taking the very steps that could change everything

The truth is, while some things may align naturally, most require effort, persistence, and courage.

While we all have something to deal with, there’s this perception that locks us in within ourselves, I mean it is also something that frees us, it gives us a sense of understanding, maybe even control

But in that same breath, it binds us, it stops us from seeing beyond what’s familiar, beyond what we think is real

It frees us just enough to make us feel safe, but not enough to explore the vastness of what could be.

Something like the idea of holding on

Likewise, things that meant to happen concept keeps us in dilemma and not in reality

We often find ourselves escaping from situations that don’t see favorable to us and perhaps, it’s not entirely our fault. We’ve been so accustomed to being spoon-fed by elders, taught to rely on guidance and comfort, that we unknowingly begin depending on people and circumstances for direction.

When someone acts out of line, we’re quick to trace the fault back to their upbringing, their background, their culture. Rarely do we hold them accountable for their own actions.

Similarly, when things fall apart, we blame the timing, the situation, the universe anything but the choices made.

We say things like, “What’s meant to be, will be,” as if fate is solely responsible for outcomes, ignoring the role we play in shaping our paths.